Bender

Eye opening

Ok, so I’m going to overshare now. I’ve gotten to a ripe old age of nearly 40 without even really experimenting with internal stimulation. By this point I had gotten a bit blocked on it. Me and my partner have both started bit of a wellness journey which includes spoiling ourselves sexually. I didn’t want to take anything off the table so despite a little apprehension I purchased some more internal products. I’ve been a bit scared honestly to try. This was a great, and very polite, gateway. The length and flexibility makes it easy to move to meet you. All in all a great purchase!

unfortunately not for me :(

i first had a partner use their bender on me and thought wow, this is great i should get my own! unfortunately the experience was not at all the same when i got my own. the vibration is more on the high frequency, like, almost grating? like it sounds like two metal saws grinding against each other? overall i found it WAY too powerful for me, even at the lowest setting, my hand went numb pretty quickly holding it. bummed this didn't work out for me. :(

Overall good purchase

Solid purchase, could do with a lower setting to work up to higher setting. Most settings are very powerful - which is great, but sometimes too much.